Sonntag, 26. August 2018

Passion and Motivation

The Myth of Passion and Motivation

On this particular day in the gym, there was a coach visiting who had worked with thousands of athletes over his long career, including some nationally-ranked athletes and Olympians.
I had just finished my workout when I asked him, “What’s the difference between the best athletes and everyone else. What do the really successful people do that most people don’t?”
He briefly mentioned the things that you might expect. Genetics. Luck. Talent.
But then he said something I wasn’t expecting.
“At some point,” he said, “it comes down to who can handle the boredom of training every day and doing the same lifts over and over and over again.”
That piece of advice surprised me because it’s a different way of thinking about work ethic.
Most of the time people talk about getting motivated and “amped up” to work on their goals. Whether it's business or sports or art, you will commonly hear people say things like, “it all comes down to having enough passion.”
As a result, I think many people get depressed when they lose focus or motivation because they think that successful people have some unstoppable passion and willpower that they seem to be missing. But that’s exactly the opposite of what this coach was saying.
Instead, he was saying that really successful people feel the same boredom and the same lack of motivation that everyone else feels. They don’t have some magic pill that makes them feel ready and inspired every day. But the difference is that the people who stick with their goals don’t let their emotions determine their actions. Top performers still find a way to show up, to work through the boredom, and to embrace the daily practice that is required to achieve their goals.
According to him, it’s this ability to do the work when it’s not easy that separates the top performers from everyone else. That's the difference between professionals and amateurs.

Working When Work Isn’t Easy

Anyone can work hard when they feel motivated.
When I was an athlete, I loved going to practice the week after a big win. Who wouldn’t? Your coach is happy, your teammates are pumped up, and you feel like you can beat anyone. As an entrepreneur, I love working when customers are rolling in and things are going well. Getting results has a way of propelling you forward.
But what about when you’re bored? What about when the work isn’t easy? What about when it feels like nobody is paying attention or you’re not getting the results you want?
Are you willing to work through 10 years of silence?
It's the ability to work when work isn't easy that makes the difference.

Quellehttps://jamesclear.com/stay-focused

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Montag, 13. August 2018

Ich komme nicht mit Menschen klar, die keine Komplimente machen können und keine ermutigenden Worte finden

„Ich habe für bestimmte Dinge nicht mehr die Geduld. Nicht, weil ich arrogant geworden bin, sondern einfach, weil ich einen Punkt in meinem Leben erreicht habe, wo ich keine Zeit mehr vergeuden möchte mit Dingen, die mir missfallen oder weh tun.

Ich habe keine Geduld mehr für Zynismus, übertriebene Kritik und Forderungen jeglicher Art. 

Ich unternehme keine Anstrengenungen mehr, denjenigenzu gefallen, die mich nicht mögen, die zu lieben, die mich ablehnen und jenen zuzulächeln, die mir niemals ein Lachen schenken.

Ich verschwende keine einzige Minute mit Menschen, die lügen oder mich manipulieren wollen. 

Auch akzeptiere ich keine Heuchelei, Unehrlichkeit und billiges Lob. 

Selektive Gelehrsamkeit und akademische Arroganz toleriere ich nicht mehr. Ich hasse Konflikte und Vergleiche.

Unsere Welt besteht aus Gegensätzen und darum meide ich starre und unflexible Menschen. Bei Freundschaften ist mir Loyalität wichtig. Mit Verrat kann ich nicht umgehen.

Ich komme nicht mit Menschen klar, die keine Komplimente machen können und keine ermutigenden Worte finden. Übertreibungen langweilen mich.

Ferner habe ich Schwierigkeiten mit Menschen, die keine Tiere mögen. 


Und darüberhinaus habe ich keine Geduld mit jemanden, der meine Geduld nicht verdient hat.«

José Micard Teixeira

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